In the past few years, we have often heard the term “quiet quitting” used when employees begin to disengage. I have heard this explained as laziness and lack of dedication, but more often, it’s a signal of unmet needs, unclear expectations, or a breakdown in trust.
Quiet quitting isn’t quitting. It’s coping.
Employees who quietly pull back are often trying to protect their well-being in environments where they feel unheard, undervalued, or overwhelmed. The solution isn’t stricter policies or more oversight, it’s open, honest communication.
Here’s how leaders can begin:
- Start with curiosity, not judgment.
Ask questions like, “How are you feeling about your workload?” or “What’s been energizing or draining for you lately?” These open-ended prompts invite dialogue and show you care. - Create psychological safety.
Employees need to know they can speak up without fear of retaliation. Normalize conversations about boundaries, burnout, and balance. - Clarify expectations and purpose.
Many disengaged employees are unclear about what’s expected of them or how their work connects to the bigger picture. Revisit goals and values together. - Hold people accountable.
If employees aren’t fulfilling their responsibilities, address it directly and respectfully. Accountability builds trust when it’s paired with fairness and support. - Follow through.
Listening is powerful, but acting on what you hear is transformational. If someone shares a concern, respond with tangible support or changes.
Quiet quitting is a call for connection, and with open communication, we can answer it.
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Written by: Erin McKown, Director of Corporate Development & Training